Saturday, January 3, 2009

Aye-aye Captain

Love is about giving, not getting; at least not in the direct one-for-one way. Giving love does bring benefits to the lover (“he who loves his wife loves himself — Eph. 5:28), but true love always has the long view of things. This is even more necessary if we have run the ship off course; we are not going to turn it around on a dime. As the heads of our households we are responsible for the course of our cruise. If our ship is not where she should be, we have to begin by acknowledging that it is not primarily the crew’s fault, but ours. The first mate follows our lead, if not our orders.

Great leaders inspire those under their charge to willingly do their best. Great leaders do not start with orders but with examples. Everyone can see what a man is. If he loves his ship and his crew it is obvious to all. If he loves himself and his privilege as captain, then the crew will resent him, avoid him, and go around him. If he has earned their respect, they will honor him, love him, and serve him well.

We get what we give.

“Give, and it will be given to you: good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be put into your bosom. For with the same measure that you use, it will be measured back to you.” —Luke 6:38

1 comment:

  1. Just yesterday I heard a man at the feed store complaining about women in general and swearing off marriage forever. And he knows how to make his own biscuits and greens, thank-you very much. The rest of us in line could only see his failures and unmanliness and hope he enjoys his lonely biscuits.